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This book is the story of a bilingual family that unexpectedly faced the challenges of both profound giftedness (that Griboyedov-like wit) and special needs (its woes)—autism, dyslexia, ADHD—that is, the world of twice-exceptionality, or 2e. Misunderstood by those around them, who only saw their children’s deficits, these parents survived an endless series of assessments, diagnoses, therapies, reports, frustrations, anxieties, and doubts; resorted to an involuntary transition to homeschooling; and went through the five stages of grief, starting with denial (this is some kind of mistake), anger (no one understands what we are dealing with), bargaining (we just need to get through one more therapy, and then everything will be fine), depression (nothing helps), and finally acceptance. However, despite such misfortunes, this is also a story about re-examining perspectives, rethinking values, and experiencing numerous epiphanies about the meaning of learning vs. education, the definition of happiness vs. success, and the value of being vs. doing.

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What do you do when you find out your kids are both gifted and have learning differences? That was my problem about a decade ago.

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To preface my story, I live in California, where I moved with my parents from Ukraine in 1996, with my husband — a San Francisco Bay Area native — and two kids: the eldest just turned 16, and our youngest is 13. Both are twice-exceptional or 2e, which means gifted (profoundly gifted

in our case, in fact) and having a learning difference at the same time. In other words, while both have a very high IQ (exceptionality number one), our son is on the autism spectrum, and our daughter is stealthily dyslexic (exceptionality number two). 

 

There are many books on giftedness in English — though I have come across only a couple on profound giftedness — and there are some on twice-exceptionality. However, my extensive search uncovered none in Russian, my native tongue. In general, there are so few resources in Russian on the topics of neurodiversity, giftedness, learning differences, twice-exceptionality, and strengths-based talent-focused practices (which are essential for supporting these unique populations) that I decided to try to fill that void first. Now, however, it is time to share the same story with the English-speaking audience from the perspective of not just twice, but thrice-exceptional family — gifted, learning different, and culturally diverse.

 

I am neither a psychologist, nor a teacher, neither a writer, nor a journalist — I am simply the mother of my children (though while I was getting ready to share my writing in the public domain I went back to school to become a doctoral student in cognitive diversity in education), and I want to tell our story. As one of the dyslexia specialists told me when I complained that the experience gained with my son does not seem to be helping us at all with our daughter, it’s time to write a book – it’s my destiny, it seems.

Cybersecurity

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  • Munoz, A. & O’Neil, Y. (2016, May). Static detection of ORM-through vulnerabilities [Paper]. HPE TechCon 2016 Conference.

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  • HPE Security Research. (2016, February). The HPE cyber risk report 2016 [White paper].

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  • O’Neil, Y.T. (2015, March). Crypto manifesto 2015 [White paper]. HP Security Research.

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  • HP Security Research. (2015, February). Cyber risk report 2015 [White paper].

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  • O’Neil, Y.T., Forsythe, J.M., & Munoz, A. (2014). Automatic detection of inadequate authorization checks in web applications using static analysis [Paper]. HP TechCon 2014 Conference.

 

 

  • O’Neil, Y.T. (2009, March). Crypto manifesto [White paper]. Fortify Software.

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